When I think back, not knowing how to keep a conversation with one or multiple girls was a horrible experience.
That feeling of being self-conscious – constantly worrying about what you should do next – is something seriously messed up.
Actually, I barely remember any such specific situations.
But that doesn’t mean I have never experienced such extreme situations, though.
What it does mean is that our minds naturally want to forget all the negative experiences we’ve encountered in life, simply because life really is hard and, therefore, we’d most likely drive nuts otherwise.
Anyway, what I wanted to discuss with you today is how ridiculously easy it actually is to converse with women confidently, charmingly, and, above all, joyfully.
All that you really need to do is:
- Correct your mindset (beliefs) about what women want and how to give it to them.
- Improve your self-esteem and self-efficacy – particularly with sexy girls.
- Some (little) experience.
Therefore, let’s discuss just that… Shall we?
Are you believing the wrong idea’s?
If you’re coping with issues such as not knowing how to keep the conversation going with a girl, then I have really good news for you.
It’s not YOU!
So what is it then?
Unfortunately, it isn’t that easy, buddy.
Instead, it is simply the belief system with which you observe women, the world around you, and yourself.
All you need to do is change these beliefs into something that makes more sense and which is easy for you to work with.
Specifically, I’m talking about your bad socialization and self-esteem.
Both of these need improvement – dramatically if you don’t know how to hold a simple conversation with beautiful girls.
Therefore, I highly recommend you to the read the following two articles, which apply to you, before proceeding this one:
Go ahead and read the above articles if you need improvement on either one of both subjects.
It’s okay, I’ll wait and make some coffee in the meantime.
Experience is the mother of exceptional confidence
Once the above is fully grasped and internalized, all that is left needed is some good old experience.
Now, I could be talking about this topic for two weeks – about my own experience.
Or.. I could just simply advise you to go out TODAY and just simply make it happen!
Because whatever happens during your approaches, more attractive you’ll become anyway.
You see, if you succeed in your goal it’ll raise your confidence dramatically.
And if she rejects you, next time you’ll be better, because you’ll have a bit more experience with what women want and how to give it to them.
The only moment you definitely loose is when you DON’T approach at all.
This is huge mistake.
However, I hope that the above was already clear to you. This is plain, common sense, after all.
So I hope today’s article has inspired you!
If so, definitely leave a comment below and give me some deserved feedback! (I’m hungry for opinions)
Future haters, you are welcome, too. 🙂